Friday, November 8, 2013

FOR MY SINGLES, MARRIED, DIVORCED AND WIDOWED!


Happy Monday everyone!

I hope it is a wonderful Friday for you too. So as usual I am sitting here in.....
"THE INSPIRATION CAVE" listening to a little music, and I started thinking about all of you. :-)




Well.... we all know that I inspire, give relationship tips or advice for both sexes.

But today I thought about what a lot of you come to me about, and that is...

 RELATIONSHIPS ISSUES!

Well(smile), some of you are single, while others are married, divorced, and widowed. So I thought I would break things down a little more as to what some of your challenges are.

So I did a little of experiment this morning on a couple of my pages(social media)(Thanks for participating).  The experiment went like this... 

The reader was instructed to just simply list the category or number that they fell onto. So I want you to do the same. 

If you are one of the following list below


1. for single
2 for married
3. for divorced
4. for widowed(you all added that one) THANKYOU!!!

So I wanted to list some of the issues or challenges that a lot of you are facing in these different categories. So here goes...

 1.SINGLES.

This category is two fold.... 

A. Some of you are happily SINGLE.
Its great to be happy and single,  but even you have issues and challenges.. so be careful, and make sure that you are happy with yourself, and that being Single is a celebration of being with you, and discovering yourself, and it is a wonderful experience, and its not because you don't trust others. The challenge for this group is that you can often feel left out of things as your friends, associates, and family are entering into relationships, or already have them, and my "HAPPY" and Single, can start feeling depressed. Once this sets in, desperation can set in, and it is noticeable to the opposite sex.

Sidenote: If you don't have this challenge, then this is not for you. Great!!

B. Some of you are Single, but looking to get into an intimate relationship with someone and be monogamous(I'll stop there to keep it simple...lol)

Some of you are enjoying the dating process(if so, this is not for you) but some of you are probably facing a little anxiety, because you are so focused on finding the one. You are wondering whats wrong with you, or for that matter, whats wrong with them?! You probably are wondering if the opposite sex even notices you at all, and understands how wonderful you are... This is one of your challenges. This group has to be careful, because you can eventually settle.

2. Married

A.Some of you are happily married  and are looking for ways to spice things up with your mate.The challenges you may be facing is boredom, and  you may think that you have done it all. You may even think others are more interesting than what you have at home.

B.Some of you find it a challenge  be a team player, while still being an individual.

C. Some of you are challenged with your role in the marriage, and may not be comfortable with that role any longer, and you want to grow.

3. Divorced

A. Some of you are happily single again, and enjoy being single again, but you still long for a companion to do things with, to eat dinner with, to travel with, but your challenge may be that you may not want to get serious but the other person does. You may not be completely ready to get back into anything serious, but still enjoy the company of someone.

B. Some of you have been devastated by your divorce. You may think it impossible to ever find love again. Your esteem may have even been compromised. You are looking for yourself again. You are looking to get your SEXY or SWAG back. But you don't know how to get it back. You don't have time for the games. You know what you want, just not sure how to get it.

4.Widowed

You have gone through the unthinkable. You have gone through something that is so hurtful and painful. To experience that type of loss is only a Pain that God can heal. Some of your challenges may be the guilt of moving forward without that person. The issues or challenge could also be facing going on and changing your life's plan because your spouse is no longer here.

You may feel guilty about sharing your love and life with someone new, because the fear of losing your spouse was difficult enough, now you  may be afraid that the memory of them could be lost as well.

So  now that I have stated these issues, and once again these are just a few challenges. I know that we are complex and there are more and even unique situations. But I didn't bring these challenges up just to have you agree, I
don't want them to remain.(that's no fun) :-(

So coming before the holidays, I will share with you guys something you will absolutely love that will give you the tools needed to take you to the place you desire most! Look out for it!!

Lets get it!!!!

As always. . .

Ibeauty!

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