At the end of the day, the reason we keep having relationships with the WRONG MEN is because we are PICKING THEM! You heard me.(smile)
Listen Luv...just because someone likes you, doesn't mean you have to be in any type of relationship with them(the cause of this is desperation and loneliness).
You are ultimately the one who decides who you spend time with, or your life with. Men notice you, they make a bid for your affections, but "WE" always hold the last word! Men know this...that's why they are baffled when we always say there are no good Men!
The Men follow our lead Ladies. Believe me, if you are sweet, kind, beautiful, smart and all that other stuff, you will attract an array of Men, BUT you have the "PICK". SO STOP PICKING FOOLS!!
The men "YOU" pick are not holding guns to your head(at least not initially). So I suggest you go to THE MAN(WOMAN) in the MIRROR, and understand that the responsibility falls on "YOU" my dear. I know this may seem harsh, but really, I am showing you who holds the power in choosing who comes into your home, and shares your life and your bed with.
STOP! Just stop it. . . . .
STOP putting the blame on MEN, and realize that we control who and what comes and stays in our lives. If its hard and you don't know how to break the habit, at least that's a start. We can talk about that, and work our way to better decisions.
WOMEN IF YOU RAISE YOUR STANDARDS.... THE MEN WILL RISE TO THE OCCASION...STOP ACCEPTING JUNK.
As always. . .Love you guys from the inside out!
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