3 simple Steps to Prepare for the relationship you desire!

Hey guys!!

I hope you are doing well today! Thank you all so much for  contacting me today and congratulating me on my latest venture "How to be Confident and "ATTRACT" the Relationship you Desire".
 
It has been in the making for a while, and I am so glad it is ready! So I thought that since we are family here, I would share a couple of things that I have put in this series.

 SO.....  I have put together a 4 week (online) course where I coach you personally that gives you the "HOW" to  be confident and ATTRACT  what you want the most,(starting Dec 27th) so hurry up!


 And for  all of you that may  want to go along at your own pace you can by purchasing the Audio series(download immediately). So many of us desire Love, Money Health, but we constantly get the opposite! Wow!!  So, I thought I would share a little bit with you tonight.... we are family... right?!

So here we go....

Here are three steps I  want  share with you  in the Course to Prepare you to "ATTRACT" the Relationship you desire!

1. The first thing you want to do is look at what areas you need work in.

When you do this, you are serious and you mean business. Just like a Boxer, or A Runner has to prepare for the race for the best shot of winning, you need to make sure you are in the best possible position as well . Remember we are trying to ATTRACT this person, so example... If you find that you you are indecisive, it is probably best that you begin with learning how to make decisions.

2. Another thing in Preparing is finding out what type of person is best for you.Everyone is different, so you need to make this as specific as possible to fit your needs.

Example, you may want to look at what qualities are important in the person you need, and make sure it lines up with who you are.. Example.... if your last relationship ended with your ex contributing to yur debt, you may want to pick someone who has a sense of Responsible Financial Awareness.


3. You may want to tie up any lose ends with past relationships.

Remember we are trying to ATTRACT the relationship we truly desire, so it is imperitive that we leave those exes behind! if you do this, once again this insure no extra drama, and gives your relationship the best chance of being all that you need  it to be.

so, there are just a few tips you need to do to PREPARE yourself...

Remember...

1. Find our "what" areas in your life need work .

2 . Find out "what" type of person is compatible for you and the qualities that best compliment you.

3. Take care of your past relationships.

So, now its time to take it further if you are serious about getting what you truly desire,

Next we will  be speaking with  +Willie Whitehead Jr. 

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You are single because of "You"!!

CHECK YOURSELF IF YOU ARE ALWAYS SINGLE! THINGS JUST GOT REAL!
We all know people who seem to keep ATTRACTING so called "Losers".... but why? Sometimes it may even be us. This is not just exclusive to singles, or just intimate relationships. Some of us seem to ATTRACT the wrong people in all areas of our life! Time to get to the bottom of this!

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THREE MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE WHILE DATING!

Happy amazing Wednesday!!

I just got off of a phone call with a young lady discussing one of my favorite things to discuss. You got it! 

RELATIONSHIPS!!

Now I know I have entitled this the mistakes women make while dating, but in no shape or form am I blaming us for the things that go wrong in our individual relationships! (Smile ).

But because I am a woman who has made a lot of mistakes and who is now"REFORMED" I felt it was my duty to help my sista's out! Lol

So let me start by saying this, you may not be doing anything wrong, but there are things that turn "MEN" off and he may lose interest. Well of course you are totally unaware, because it could be something very small to you. Sweetie, he may or may not tell you depending on how INVESTED HE IS IN YOU!

So I am going to share some of these things with you.

1. Do not send him a photo of you before you had your three kids. This is a No.... It will work for a while but he has to see you sooner or later.

When you send a Man your photo, please show all of you,(entire body) and make sure it is a recent picture,you don't have to be a supermodel, but 

CONFIDENCE is sexy to him. So show your playful side as well as your sultry side.

Men are very simple, first impressions are important to him. So who he sees in the photo is who he expects to see when he meets you. Trust is the basis of Love for. MEN, and these small things makes him feel as though you are hiding something.

2. DO NOT TALK ABOUT YOUR EX, YOUR ISSUES, PROBLEMS OR BILLS...

You are giving him all the reasons why he should go the other way. Remember he is trying to get to know you. Tell him how much you love to dance, smile, flirt, and keep the conversation on how amazing you are.That's who he wants to see.

3.DON'T ASK HIM ABOUT OTHER WOMEN

He is dating you. Just because you are dating, until you both have established where you are going in this relationship, you need to remain flexible and not worry about other women.Meaning you must have standards,but understand that until he states that you are his, this could be a major turn off... He is thinking...

"This chick is jealous... I don't need this drama"

Sometimes  things will be going well on the phone before you meet,you may even be dating  for a couple of months and things just go left and you have no idea why! Depending on if he cares he may tell you what the problem is or not. Men are not always very verbal and they don't want to waste there time, so sometimes they will just stop calling. I didn't make the rules. Its just the way it is.. Should they consider your feelings? Yes..... But at the end of the day, just be you, remember to show what makes you special and he will want to stick to you like glue.....

If you are single and find it hard to have someone commit to you, and it's leaving you confused.. Please click this link below and let me help you figure things out. 

As always...Muah!!!!

Ibeauty

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YOU MAY FEEL ALONE BUT YOU ARE IMPORTANT TO ME!

Happy Saturday Beauties and Gents!

Its  a sunny morning here in Atlanta , Ga this morning, and I am still blesssed to experience all that that this day has to offer. Mom and the kids, are traveling back to their own home's and I am wishing them safe travels. But of course, I didn't forget about you! :-)

You know sometimes we get so caught up in our own lives, and the way we celebrate things that we sometimes forget that there are some of us who dont have family, or someone to love or care about them, If this is you, let me start off by saying,you are apart of MY FAMILY!

You are apart of THE HUMAN FAMILY and you are IMPORTANT TO ME! 

If you are reading this, and you wander how can this be true. Its simple for me, Its my truth. I know that I cannot inspire and love if you did not exist. I also know that you may have hardships along the way, and you think that life is never going to get better, or you may suffer from anxiety, panic attacks, lonliness and self doubt.

For those of us who may not have experienced some of these things, they are very real to those who experience these feelings,... but LUVS YOU DONT HAVE TO CONTINUE TO LIVE THIS WAY!

When we come into  this world we are wrapped in love, we are happy for no reason at all, but because we simply are here! It is the Will of Our Creator that we have abundance, love, and to have relationships with one another that support the best in us! 

Some of you have been feeling such hurtful feeling's for so long, that you don't know when and where they began. Honey, most of  these self defeating thoughts were deposited into your spirits at a very young age, by others. Our environment either nurtures us or can destroy us. When you were just a child, you were open to the world, to the way it taught you. You were open to others thoughts, and were to young to protect your mind and your spirit....

IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!

But I serve a God, that continues to remind me to tell you the truth about who you are, and who he designed you to be, He tells us that we are FEARFULLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE!

It is my absolute delight to remind you of this, because he whispers this to me every morning, sometimes in my spirit, sometimes through practical matters. Our creator uses his people to help one another, and that's all I am assigned to do. We are never supposed to hurt one another with our mouths, with our actions, or with our strength. We are commanded to LOVE

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Six steps to help put your emotions into perspective! Written by Inspirational Beauty

 

Hey Luvs!!!

Wow. . .it has been a beautiful day so far, but for some reason, I have not been able to get up and going. So I did the one thing that would FORCE ME TO GET A MOVE ON! That is making videos(LOL), So I decided to write about something that you may experience as well.

 So here goes. . . .  

We all experience ups and downs, and sometimes we experience these feelings from day to day, and if you are experiencing them, don't beat yourself up. Sometimes feelings come into play for different reasons. I simply suggest that you put them into perspective, and don't let them stop your progress. People often ask me, how do you do it Kim? I have a system that I use, when I fall into this trap. 

1.The first thing I do is understand that "WHAT"I am experiencing are just my emotions and they will pass. I give them permission to be there! They are a part of me . I don't try to stuff them  back down,  if I do, they will eventually come out, whether I want them to or not. So  I let them come out, and I give them a time limit. 

2.I allow myself 10 minutes to let them run wild, and after that I take control!

3.  I then set my goal in front of me

a. I  become specific about what I want

b  I become  specific about when I want it(attach a time line)

c. Be specific about HOW you're gonna do it!

Hey Luvs! Don't be so hard on yourselves today. Life is a slow progression. Excellence requires time,effort and action. Stay vigilant and you will get there.#inspirational #beauty

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What relationships are you cultivating?

You are a result of the books you read, and the people you associate yourself with..... I couldn't agree more John Holland. I believe that we all must "SEEK" knowledge and the right people to elevate our life's experience.... So check out the video with this cool and successful brother!

Ps... Thanks for the shoutout sir ! :-)

As always....

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FOR MY SINGLES, MARRIED, DIVORCED AND WIDOWED!

Happy Monday everyone!

I hope it is a wonderful Friday for you too. So as usual I am sitting here in.....

"THE INSPIRATION CAVE" listening to a little music, and I started thinking about all of you. :-)

Well.... we all know that I inspire, give relationship tips or advice for both sexes.

But today I thought about what a lot of you come to me about, and that is...

 RELATIONSHIPS ISSUES!

Well(smile), some of you are single, while others are married, divorced, and widowed. So I thought I would break things down a little more as to what some of your challenges are.

So I did a little of experiment this morning on a couple of my pages(social media)(Thanks for participating).  The experiment went like this... 

The reader was instructed to just simply list the category or number that they fell onto. So I want you to do the same. 

If you are one of the following list below

1. for single
2 for married
3. for divorced
4. for widowed(you all added that one) THANKYOU!!!

So I wanted to list some of the issues or challenges that a lot of you are facing in these different categories. So here goes...

 1.SINGLES.

This category is two fold.... 

A. Some of you are happily SINGLE.
Its great to be happy and single,  but even you have issues and challenges.. so be careful, and make sure that you are happy with yourself, and that being Single is a celebration of being with you, and discovering yourself, and it is a wonderful experience, and its not because you don't trust others. The challenge for this group is that you can often feel left out of things as your friends, associates, and family are entering into relationships, or already have them, and my "HAPPY" and Single, can start feeling depressed. Once this sets in, desperation can set in, and it is noticeable to the opposite sex.

Sidenote: If you don't have this challenge, then this is not for you. Great!!

B. Some of you are Single, but looking to get into an intimate relationship with someone and be monogamous(I'll stop there to keep it simple...lol)

Some of you are enjoying the dating process(if so, this is not for you) but some of you are probably facing a little anxiety, because you are so focused on finding the one. You are wondering whats wrong with you, or for that matter, whats wrong with them?! You probably are wondering if the opposite sex even notices you at all, and understands how wonderful you are... This is one of your challenges. This group has to be careful, because you can eventually settle.

2. Married

A.Some of you are happily married  and are looking for ways to spice things up with your mate.The challenges you may be facing is boredom, and  you may think that you have done it all. You may even think others are more interesting than what you have at home.

B.Some of you find it a challenge  be a team player, while still being an individual.

C. Some of you are challenged with your role in the marriage, and may not be comfortable with that role any longer, and you want to grow.

3. Divorced

A. Some of you are happily single again, and enjoy being single again, but you still long for a companion to do things with, to eat dinner with, to travel with, but your challenge may be that you may not want to get serious but the other person does. You may not be completely ready to get back into anything serious, but still enjoy the company of someone.

B. Some of you have been devastated by your divorce. You may think it impossible to ever find love again. Your esteem may have even been compromised. You are looking for yourself again. You are looking to get your SEXY or SWAG back. But you don't know how to get it back. You don't have time for the games. You know what you want, just not sure how to get it.

4.Widowed

You have gone through the unthinkable. You have gone through something that is so hurtful and painful. To experience that type of loss is only a Pain that God can heal. Some of your challenges may be the guilt of moving forward without that person. The issues or challenge could also be facing going on and changing your life's plan because your spouse is no longer here.

You may feel guilty about sharing your love and life with someone new, because the fear of losing your spouse was difficult enough, now you  may be afraid that the memory of them could be lost as well.

So  now that I have stated these issues, and once again these are just a few challenges. I know that we are complex and there are more and even unique situations. But I didn't bring these challenges up just to have you agree, I

don't want them to remain.(that's no fun) :-(

So coming before the holidays, I will share with you guys something you will absolutely love that will give you the tools needed to take you to the place you desire most! Look out for it!!

Lets get it!!!!

As always. . .

Ibeauty!

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THREE REASONS IN 30 SECONDS WHY YOU SHOULD FOLLOW THIS BLOG!

 Well Hellooooo Everyone!

As most of you are aware, I am pretty new at the whole video thingee. . .but LOVING IT! LOL
But I also didn't want to do things the same old boring way. So instead of boring you guys with an informational video, instead I decided to give you just a quick snippet. That way you can finish your phone call, or eating, or sleeping without losing much time at all.LOL

So ... click below, and see why "I" think that you should be following "The Inspirational Corner." Take a peak, I promise it wont take long....actually it is...

 less than 30 seconds....LOL

Enjoy!!!!!

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Ibeauty!

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Willie Whitehead Jr.: Will Your Way to Winning Wednesday Episode 22 - T....

 Willie Whitehead mastered his craft with the NFL, and he is showing us how to do that for ourselves.Let your walk and talk match up. That's the only way it can become a reality.. Thank you sir!!

Let's get it baby!!!

As always. . .

Inspirational Beauty



Willie Whitehead Jr.: Will Your Way to Winning Wednesday Episode 22 - T....

What do you do with insecure feelings?

Luvs...let me be honest.

Most days I wake up Grateful, Thankful, loving life,:-) and other day's I wake up indecisive, scared, insecure.

I guess when it all comes down to it, I am "HUMAN".

That's cool, since we all are, so you probably share similar feelings at times.

How do I keep those insecure feelings in check? Most of the time, I lean on a higher understanding, meaning that I understand that all those insecure things are in my head, and they are not real.

But what about those days when that's not enough? (smile) I take a deep breath, and I let My Creator take over my thoughts, and fill my heart and spirit with truth.

REAL TALK!

The truth is I am worthy of great things, I am worthy of love and to be loved. I am worthy of success, and wealth and good health, not simply because of my intellect, beauty, dedication, or anything for that matter, but because I recognize that I am human and not SUPERHUMAN.

You are just like me, you are deserving, and we deserve to have the best life and all the spoils that come along with it. Humility and confidence are kissing cousins, and we need both to fulfill what God has for us. So when I get down on myself(for no reason at all). I remember that I am on assignment, and that is enough to get me going!

I hope this inspires someone tonight...

Lets get it fam!!!

As always. . . .

Muah!

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How I took a 40 second Dream and Wrote a book. . . .You can do whatever you put your mind to!

Happy Wednesday Fam!

Wow, I am sooooo crunk today, I have so much  energy running through my body to day, and I am gonna get every piece of it out today! (smile). Today I am getting ready for a very important meeting, and I want things to go well. So guess who came to visit me?

My negative voice"SHAY"

Yeah... she started going in, telling me

"How are you gonna make this happen Kim?"

"Who knows you?"

I felt myself shrinking, and then another voice came up and started showing me things that I was able to do and to bring to life from just a thought or a dream......

It was......

 INSPIRATIONAL BEAUTY!

From a dream on a lazy Thursday morning several years ago, I had a 40 second dream about my dog..... and out of that and push from a great friend at the time...I took that snippet and made it a book! YES!!! I was able to take the one thing I had neverdone, and do it..... Never think that your thoughts are too small or too big for that matter. If you can see it you can do it.... After seeing it in my head, I wrote the first 3 chapters in 5 days. I had never written a book. I saw the characters in front of me, and wow..... I saw it come to life right in front of my eyes!!!! Yes!!!!

If I can do it...you can do it. "The Bogie Files" was born. A Children's book(for 9-11 year olds). The story was about my Dog "Bogie"(Boston terrier) who was a dog detective who solved neighborhood crimes with his crew. so never ...never let anyone tell you what you are not capable of doing...... because you are capable it ALL!!!!!

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Willie Whitehead Jr.: Will Your Way to Winning Episode 20 Fly High with ...

Willie Whitehead Jr.: Will Your Way to Winning Episode 20 Fly High with ...

Get ready! This message today Willie Whitehead is on point!

Lets ride "TWA" baby!

Thoughts
Words
Actions!!!!

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Great beauty finds!

Hey Ladies!

I wanted to share some really cool pics and videos I made. The latest trends from  Kat Von D , Urban Decay and Makeup Forever as well as Philosophy. 

Enjoy!

As always....

Ib

Never let anyone tell you what you can't do!

NEVER LET ANYONE TELL YOU WHAT YOU CAN'T DO!

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It's Thankful Thursday!

It's Thankful Thursday!

Happy Thursday everyone!

 Today is Thankful Thursday and I am excited and Thankful for so many things
But I wanted to see what all of you were Thabkful for. So let's get to it!

I can't wait to hear you!

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As always.....

I. Beauty